Question: How can I change my destiny quickly if I fail in everything and I am still poor and I do not achieve?
Answer: In my opinion there is never really any failure, only learning about what makes you happy or unhappy.
Happiness itself is something that wells up from the inside. It is your birthright. It doesn’t depend on outside circumstances or whether or not you achieve something, which would be a kind of conditional happiness or success. Sometimes we can forget that our natural state is one of pure joy and then we spend much of our lives trying to recapture what we feel we have lost.
If you make success conditional on something you have to achieve it can often elude you. Your focus is on the conditions needed to ‘get’ what you feel you don’t have instead of placing your focus on ‘remembering’ that it is already there and had simply been covered up by the illusion of separation.
Even if you achieved something it would only ever be temporary until you start looking for the next thing to achieve to fill your perceived emptiness.
The truth is that you are ‘full’, not empty
If you were to make the choice to open right now to the present moment by, for example breathing deeply and being mindful of the now … the stillness in the pauses between the breath … there will not be an issue of success or failure there.
Just simply opening with trust into each moment as it arises is enough.
This is the quickest way to ‘unhook’ from ‘poor me’ stories and feelings of failure
No past, no future, no projections, regrets or expectations, no stories and justifications of why you or things are the way they are, no ‘shoulds’ or ‘shouldn’ts’, no comparing of better or worse, no self-judgments and recriminations…. just beingness.
I simply am – in this moment
Focus on your body, your breath and be curious about what unfolds as it arises spontaneously from this true beautiful magnificent essence of love that you are. This is the way. Coming to stillness, dropping the mind talk, opening to your inner wisdom, peace and joy.
Love doesn’t judge. It simply embraces what is and says that everything is ok.
Abundance is already here inside of you
Abundance is already here inside of you waiting to manifest when you drop the stories you are carrying around about being poor and a failure and a non-achiever.
What you are focusing on right now is blocking the flow. Let go of your judgments and allow. You can start by tuning into the abundance of nature, by practising being grateful and being in the energy of appreciation.
Little by little as you strengthen these ‘abundance muscles’ and let go of giving weight to the ‘lack muscles’ you will begin to feel much better, more uplifted and hopeful and this will have a beneficial effect in your body and in your life as the momentum starts to take hold.
This is an upward spiral towards better feeling energies and manifestation instead of the downward spiral of hopelessness and frustration when you are focused on failure and lack.
You just need to start the ball rolling in the right direction.
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“Since I joined the group, I have learned how to slow my thoughts through simple breathing techniques, and then connect my breathing to my heart. I’ve learned how to quieten my mind enough to hear and listen to my heart. I’ve learned that I am enough, and I have always been enough, I am loved, and I have always been loved and am love. I have always been… I had just forgotten.
Now I am learning to remember.
The best thing of all that I have learned, is that I always have a choice. I can choose whatever I like. I am learning to become an observer of my thoughts and reactions, which is enabling me to realize that there are other options, other thoughts to think… which create other feelings… I can choose to feel happy whenever I wish, no matter what I might have previously automatically thought. I love this feeling – it feels like being free… to be me… to be happy and loved… and to love x Joy, much love and gratitude to you… Today, I am remembering, and my wish is that I remember this every single day of my life xxx”
Liz Fleming
